I fondly recall this song being used in the movie About a Boy. None of the versions there feature the stunning, natural soul singer Roberta Flack. Instead, it’s used for both comedic and dramatic effect, like in this this scene.
In the video below, we see the late Roberta Flack perform Killing Me Softly With His Song. I agree with many viewers’ comments about the class on display:
Just a woman and a microphone. No theatrics, no gaudy outfits, no big band, no choir, no fireworks. Just a pure voice and real talent.
This is the second song featured here after her other standout hit, the slow-burning and passionate The First Time I Ever Saw Your Face.
Roberta Flack passed away in February 2025. Many people describe her as a true professional, and her voice was just as good live as it was on record. Flack credited her success to her classical training. She was a gifted piano student in her teens, but later changed her focus from piano to voice during her studies.
“My classical background made it possible for me to try a number of things with [Killing Me Softly’s arrangement]”
The backstory to Killing Me Softly With His Song is quite involved, but also one of the most fascinating I’ve come across. So here goes:
The original version was recorded by Lori Lieberman (image inset). She was inspired after seeing Don McLean perform at the Troubadour in Los Angeles. One song in particular, Empty Chairs, moved her deeply. She wrote down her thoughts on a napkin during the performance. Later, she shared these ideas with songwriter Norman Gimbel. As she described the feeling of “a singer reaching deep inside her world with his song,” Gimbel was reminded of a phrase he had written earlier: “killing me softly with his blues.”
Gimbel fleshed out Lieberman’s notes into lyrics and passed them to composer Charles Fox, who set them to music. Fox and Gimbel had signed Lieberman into a management contract in which they would write her songs and manage her career, and take 20% of her income. Also, Gimbel, despite being twice her age and married was having an affair with Lieberman.
I’m surprised Lori Lieberman’s original didn’t do anything – it didn’t even chart, but it’s just so beautiful. She is really living in that song and not just singing it. Her voice has shades of Barbra Streisand and Anne Murray. Roberta Flack heard it on a flight and was so impressed she jotted down notes and as soon as she landed she called Quincy Jones. 2 days later she had the music.
When Flack released her recording, it became a massive hit. It reached No. 1 in the United States (where it stayed for five weeks), as well as in Australia and Canada, and reached No. 6 in the UK.
What’s so sad and seems unjust is Lori Lieberman was denied writing credit by Fox and Gimbel who later earned the Song of the Year Grammy. In a 2020 interview, Lieberman said she was not seeking money or official credit. She simply wanted people to understand the true origin of the song.
In 1996, the Fugees recorded their version with Lauryn Hill on lead vocals. Their take on the song was also a huge success, reaching No. 1 in twenty countries.
[Chorus]
Strummin’ my pain with his fingers
Singin’ my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song
Killing me softly with his song
Tellin’ my whole life with his words
Killing me softly with his song
[Verse 1]
I heard he sang a good song
I heard he had a style
And so I came to see him
To listen for a while
And there he was, this young boy
A stranger to my eyes
[Chorus]
[Verse 2]
I felt all flushed with fever
Embarrassed by the crowd
I felt he found my letters
And read each one out loud
I prayed that he would finish
But he just kept right on
[Chorus]
[Verse 3]
He sang as if he knew me
In all my dark despair
And then he looked right through me
As if I wasn’t there
And he just kept on singin’
Singin’ clear and strong
[Chorus]
[Bridge]
Oh, oh-oh, oh-oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh
La-la-la, la-la
Oh, oh-oh, oh, oh-oh
La-ah, ah, la
La, ah-ah, ah-ah-ah-ah
[Chorus]
References:
1. Killing Me Softly with His Song – Wikipedia
2. The back-story to ‘Killing Me Softly’ – Luis Dias

















