This 2010 Academy Award-winning song is one of my favourite country ballads, and an unusual one at that. Typically, such songs are about love, heartbreak, or rural life. But The Weary Kind feels more like a piece of hard-earned advice – aimed at a cowboy who’s pushed his luck too many times and is about to be swallowed whole by the rough-and-tumble world (a world that doesn’t take any prisoners) if he doesn’t clean up his act. Since this song is the main theme of the movie Crazy Heart, it’s self-evident that it’s directed at the country singer Bad Blake, played by Jeff Bridges. He’s a man who has tried to bluff and out-cheat life too long by leaning on booze, risky living, and denial – and now stands on the precipice of collapse.
For most of my adult life, like the protagonist, I too succumbed to alcoholism, and so I related deeply not just to the film but to this song. Three lines in particular continue to leave their mark on me, perhaps more than almost any others:
And this ain’t no place for the weary kind
And this ain’t no place to lose your mind
This ain’t no place to fall behind
I live in Bogotá, Colombia, and I have two young kids to raise. I can’t afford to lose my footing the way Bad Blake does in the film, because here, if I fall apart, this place could swallow me whole – and my family along with me. There are no two ways about it. These lines are a constant reminder that I have to stay in top shape, mentally and physically, to face the harsh realities of what life here can bring. For a foreigner from the other side of the globe (Australia), Bogotá most definitely ain’t a place to lose your mind.
Learning to live without being enslaved to alcohol and nicotine has been a godsend. Ideally, I want to push my energy outward – to give up greed, give up lust, to let go, and surrender everything to the divine animating force that pervades all things: the Logos.
Crazy Heart is one of my favourite recent movies and earned Jeff Bridges his first Academy award after seven nominations. It was made for just 7 million dollars but grossed 47 million. As aforementioned the principal song from Crazy Heart is The Weary Kind which won the Academy Award for Best Original Song. The whole soundtrack is great (thanks in large part to T-Bone Burnett), and there’s another song which stood out for me and featured here recently called Fallin’ & Flyin’.
Your heart’s on the loose
You rolled them sevens with nothing to lose
This ain’t no place for the weary kind
You called all your shots
Shooting eight ball at the corner truck stop
Somehow this don’t feel like home anymore
And this ain’t no place for the weary kind
And this ain’t no place to lose your mind
This ain’t no place to fall behind
Pick up your crazy heart and give it one more try
Your body aches
Playing your guitar, sweating out the hate
The days and the nights all feel the same
Whiskey has been a thorn in your side
It doesn’t forget
The highway that calls for your heart inside
And this ain’t no place for the weary kind
This ain’t no place to lose your mind
This ain’t no place to fall behind
Pick up your crazy heart and give it one more try
Your lover’s warm kiss
Is too damn far from your fingertips
You are the man that ruined her world
Your heart’s on the loose
You rolled them sevens with nothing to lose
And this ain’t no place for the weary kind













